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5 Big Mistakes Men Make after They Come and the Sex Is Over


“It is in the moments subsequent to orgasm when a man proves whether or not he’s an erotically civilized adult” ~ Theodore Van de Velde

One of the biggest mistakes a guy can make is when he doesn’t know shit about what to do after sex.

These are the kind of mistakes that can ruin your relationship or prevent you from being in one.

If you are in a serious relationship, and your wife or girlfriend means something to you besides thrusting her daily, there are things you must never do after you have sex with her.

And in this article, I share with you 5 of them.

Avoid these mistakes and your woman will want to have sex with you more often.

That said, let’s get into it.

Mistake #1 – Rolling over and going to sleep just after sex

This is a very common mistake most men make after sex.

After you make love to your woman and you blow your load, you feel a little tired and you do want to drift off and go to sleep immediately afterward.

And I get that.

Due to our biological make-up, we crash quickly after sex.

But it certainly is a big mistake that can kill the intimacy with your woman.

So the first rule after you come and the sex is over is… don’t go to sleep, period.

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Mistake #2 – Going to the bathroom

Grabbing a hot shower together can be a great sexual activity done after sex.

But getting up immediately after sex and rushing to the bathroom – leaving your woman alone in the bedroom – is definitely not.

Mistake #3 – Turning on the television

Don’t ever turn the television on.

Seriously! If you’re doing this after sex, you’re making a huge mistake.

If you can’t stop yourself from watching TV, then get the television out of the bedroom.

Mistake #4 – Getting something to eat or drink

If you’re getting something to drink to recharge the energy lost and go for a second round… kudos.

Sure, your woman will be plenty happy if you are up for a “round 2”.

But if you walk out just to eat, and probably do something else besides being with your woman, then don’t do it.

Mistake #5 – Making that “important” phone call

Save it for the following morning.

You should have made that call before sex.

Sex doesn’t have to end when you come!

To borrow a phrase from Theodore Van de Velde, “it’s in the moments subsequent to orgasm when a man proves whether or not he’s an ‘erotically civilized’ adult”.

Read that again.

Just because your woman says she’s climaxed and you’ve had your share doesn’t mean the sexual act is over.

Spend at least 30 minutes kissing, cuddling, snuggling, and talking.

If you get up and leave, you’re most surely sending her the message that sex is all you are interested in.

There are lots of fun, more romantic, and exciting things both of you can do after sex! The only limit is your imagination

After a hot, sweaty sex, women want more interaction and men want to turn on the television, get up or roll over and fall asleep.

But instead of crashing quickly after sex, do it while holding your woman in your arms.

If you want to grab a shower and clean up, go in there with her and incorporate it into a romantic event.

Always focus on emotionally connecting with your woman after sex – don’t ever get out of the room or turn on the television or just roll over and go to sleep… that will be a HUGE mistake.

KEEP READING: How to Please Your Woman in Bed

Don’t take this moment for granted

Let your woman know that she’s special and you care about her.

Spend a little quality time with her and stay connected… continue creating a strong emotional experience for her.

If you want your woman to see you as a great lover and the best she’s ever had, give her the best sexual experience and avoid these 5 mistakes.

If you have made any of these mistakes, don’t feel discouraged. Because they are common mistakes that even the best lovers are often guilty of making.

Just don’t repeat it… be better.

So there you have it…

…the 5 big mistakes men make after they come and the sex is over.

I hope this article has given you an insight into some of the bedroom mistakes to avoid and how to please your woman in bed.

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