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5 Unfortunate Reasons Most Guys and Men Ejaculate Quickly During Sex

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It’s every guy’s desire to last longer during sex…

…to give his girl or woman orgasms and a one-of-a-kind sexual experience she can only have with him.

But unfortunately, most guys ejaculate or climax sooner than they would like to.

Now, why does this happen?

Why do most guys or men ejaculate quickly during sex?

Surely, there’s the usual culprit – premature ejaculation…

…but there are other reasons why we guys ejaculate quickly during sex.

And they are…

  1. involuntary contraction of the ejaculatory muscle
  2. demanding sex positions and sexual postures
  3. intense stimulation to the penis
  4. over-excitement
  5. performance anxiety – the fear of ejaculating quickly again

Let’s go into detail.

Involuntary contraction of the ejaculatory muscle

This is an overlooked reason most guys or men ejaculate quickly during sex.

The ejaculatory muscle is the muscle that you feel involuntary contracting when you’re ejaculating and having an orgasm.

This is the muscle that also allows us guys to move our erect penis up and down. Get it!

It is the same muscle that controls the flow of urine. Notice how when you’re peeing, the muscle you push to force urination out and contract when you are trying to stop urination… or relax to allow the urine to flow naturally, this is the ejaculatory muscle at work.

This muscle plays an important role when it comes to sex – it is through the continuous relaxation of the ejaculatory muscle that we guys can last as long as we like during sex. Or at least, last a lot longer during sex.

Now, most guys or men find themselves easily losing control during sex because they fail to keep their ejaculatory muscles from involuntary contracting.

It is through the continuous relaxation of the ejaculatory muscle that one can last as long as he likes during sex.

Another overlooked reason why early ejaculation happens or why most guys or men ejaculate quickly during sex is their use of…

…demanding sex positions and sexual postures

Sex positions and sexual postures also play an important role in lasting longer during sex.

You see, when it comes to sex and lasting longer, one needs to feel relaxed and not tense up his body and muscle groups.

And as I discussed a moment ago, it is through the continuous relaxation of the ejaculatory muscles that we guys can last as long as we like during sex. Or at least, last a lot longer during sex.

But some sex positions make it difficult for most guys or men to feel relaxed and most importantly keep their ejaculatory muscles relaxed for a longer period during sex.

Considered ‘too demanding’ because these sex positions put too much pressure on the body, especially the thighs and legs… which leads to the involuntary contractions of the ejaculatory muscles. And which consequently pushes one to ejaculate quickly or sooner than he would like to.

Looking at the missionary sex position, for instance, you will notice that we guys depend on our arms and legs for support during sex…

…and this puts too much pressure on our body and muscles and makes it difficult for us to relax our ejaculatory muscles for a longer period during sex.

The next overlooked reason why early ejaculation happens or why most guys or men ejaculate quickly during sex is…

…the intense stimulation to the penis

Particularly when the vagina ‘hugs’ the penis tightly during sex.

This is also what causes quick ejaculation during intercourse for most men.

When there’s stimulation to the penis beyond what a man can take, it intensifies his excitement and causes him to ejaculate and climax sooner than he would want to.

You see, a tight vagina stimulates the most sensitive part of the penis (the frenulum) really well… and this can cause most men to blow their load sooner than they would want to.

When there is too much friction to the frenulum (the small fold of skin located on the underside of the penis head), it pushes a man closer to ejaculation and orgasm.

On top of that, if the man adopts a “too demanding sexual posture” like the standard missionary, it can make it difficult for him to control his sexual arousal and excitement.

Quick ejaculation is also a result of stimulation to the penis beyond what a man can take.

Moving on to the next reason most guys or men ejaculate quickly during sex…

Over-excitement

For any man to last longer in bed, it starts with him controlling his sexual arousal.

A failure of a man to control his arousal and excitement during intercourse will cause him to ejaculate sooner than he would like to.

Because as he starts to peak in his excitement, comes the beginning of the ‘point of no return’.

And once a guy gets overly excited, it’s game over almost as soon as the sex begins.

Once a man gets overly excited, it’s game over for him.

Now, the last reason for ejaculating too fast…

Performance anxiety – the fear of ejaculating quickly again

As hard as it may be to believe, sexual anxiety also triggers early ejaculation.

This is especially true when a guy is used to ejaculating quickly during sex and worries that it’s going to happen again…

…plus, he is with a new woman. And he’s afraid to ejaculate quickly and embarrass himself.

Here, when a guy is preoccupied with his performance issue – especially afraid to ejaculate prematurely – his body (the endocrine gland) churns out a hormone (that quickens ejaculation) into the bloodstream. Which inevitably leads to quick ejaculation.

Plus, his concern with ejaculating quickly causes him to lose sight of how to control his arousal… and this consequently causes him to climax quickly.

The greater the anxiety level, the closer a guy gets to ejaculation.

A man can experience a lack of control over his arousal and climax fast when anxious.

So, there you have it…

…the 5 unfortunate reasons most guys or men ejaculate quickly during sex.

I hope this article has given you an insight into what causes early ejaculation or what causes a man to ejaculate quickly during sex.

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